Ahh rental racing…it’s the same in Texas I see.
To be fair to rental racing (my bag these days) it all really depends on the location. Rental leagues run by places that are generally amusement centers often stink and have no race culture that informs the experience/structure etc. it’s up to the participants to make it good and often it just isn’t. (Unless there’s a core of experienced folks that color the behavior).
However a rental league race at a place that also has “real” (dammit Derek) racing is usually quite different. Typically the rental leagues are passion projects that are intended to attract folks and get them started on their racing journey. (See Pitt race, Trackhouse, DKC, OKC etc). These series, run by racers, are foundational and can be excellent, teaching new folks what they need to know while also providing seasoned folks with a worthwhile and challenging experience.
Unfortunately league stuff isn’t profitable as compared to running public sessions so many facilities don’t bother and as a consequence the behaviour you describe persist because the clientele ultimately remains transient amusement seekers.
In my area a few of the fellas started their own series to counter the lack of quality racing available, renting out facilities and running the races themselves. That combined with a few locations that actually give a shit and some regional travel series, means that the core group of folks I have come up with have places to go do battle. (And we try not to be douchey and welcoming/helpful to the clueless newbs so that when they aren’t newbs they will be fun to race against!)
Not all rental stuff is equal, alas.
That being said, going from rentals to lo206 competition karting is a different animal. While the engine package is similar, the karts aren’t closed wheel well, are much lighter, and typically are part of an organized series, (with an actual race director who is trying to promote and succeed).
If you do have access to competetive lo206 series (which you probably do in TX) it will be quite a bit more buttoned up. There are classes that divide by min weight, eliminating the issue of being constantly overrun by 100lb 13 year olds . Even better, you can race against fields of guys your age in masters classes (translation old and fat(ish)).
As the scope of the series gets wider, competition goes up as does cost/time commitment etc. Regional series that draw the fastest folks are different than club series. But that’s not where you start, that’s where you end up if you get good and want to push yourself out of the comfort zone of club stuff.
It seems to me that you probably would benefit from exploring club racing at a place like DKC, that offers real racing from formal rental league to USPKS/SKUSA national events. You’d meet folks and make connections racing and your horizons/possibilities would broaden, probably. Tx is a big place and I don’t know much about it but I can say that Mikes operation at DKC is world class and that there’s a club that is really good out at NTK.